
A woman’s right to orgasm
This blog provides tips how to give women orgasms, reveals different female orgasm techniques and makes sure women get good orgasms every day.
study carried out on 16 female Belgian university students revealed the trained sexologists can tell how orgasmic a woman is just by observing her walk.
The participants completed a questionnaire on their sexual behaviour and were then videotaped from a distance while walking in a public place. The videotapes were then rated by two professors of sexology and two research assistants trained in the functional-sexological approach to sexology, who were had no idea about the women’’s orgasmic history. It was found that the appropriately trained sexologists could correctly infer vaginal orgasm through watching the way the women walked over 80 percent of the time.
Also, on further analysis, it was discovered that the sum of stride length and vertebral rotation was greater for the vaginally orgasmic women. “This could reflect the free, unblocked energetic flow from the legs through the pelvis to the spine,” noted the authors.
Out of many plausible explanations for the results, once could be that a woman’’s anatomical features may predispose her to greater or lesser tendency to experience vaginal orgasm. “Blocked pelvic muscles, which might be associated with psychosexual impairments, could both impair vaginal orgasmic response and gait,” said the leader of the research.
Besides, vaginally orgasmic women may feel more confident about their sexuality, which might be reflected in their gait. “Such confidence might also be related to the relationship(s) that a woman has had, given the finding that specifically penile-vaginal orgasm is associated with indices of better relationship quality,” stated the authors.
This study has linked vaginal orgasm to better mental health. The study provides some support for assumptions of a link between muscle blocks and sexual function, according to the authors. The authors concluded that it might support the idea of incorporating training in movement, breathing and muscle patterns into the treatment of sexual dysfunction.
Source: Times of India
The G Spot goes in and out of fashion with sex experts. Some claim it exists, some deny.
The G Spot is really the underside or root of the clitoris and its nerves, which can be stimulated from inside the vagina, though women vary far more in their response to this type of stimulation than they do in their clitoral responses.
Some women feel it’s the greatest turn-on ever, some hate it, some feel it’s a pleasurable variation, others find it irritating.
There are no rights and wrongs. What matters is for both partners to feel free to experiment and give feedback on what feels good to them. Because the G Spot can be so sensitive and its effects unpredictable, it’s often a good idea for the woman to explore for herself first and then later share the knowledge with her partner.
Fingers are usually going to be more effective than a penis, by the way, and you’re more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused. There is a special sex toy designed to help – the Rock-Chick - which stimulates the clitoris and the G Spot simultaneously. See www.rock-chick.com for details.
Most women are more responsive to clitoral stimulation and need clitoral stimulation if they are to climax during intercourse.
What often intrigues people about the G Spot is that it’s said to be linked with female ejaculation – women producing fluid on climax just as men do.
This is how to touch a woman’s face:
Face contours
Facial stroking can feel divine, and is a shortcut to sexual arousal. Use a forefinger and index finger to massage the temples in a gentle circular motion, then use the pads of your fingers to stroke along every contour, particularly the jaw line and cheeks. Really look at her like she would be the most beautiful woman in the world.
Lips
Don’t waste the erotic potential of this hot zone by immediately planting a kiss smack-center with tongue flying. Instead take time to nibble, kiss and lick the upper and lowe lip separately. Catch the upper lip between your teeth and bite gently. Lick the insides of her lips. Suck gently her lower lip. Make circular trails by planting little kisses all around the edges of her mouth. And finally move in for some nice, long, soft and sexy kissing.
Ears
The ear is a sexy hot spot because when you lean toward her she’s not sure you’re going to turn her on with your tongue or whisper something naughty. Use the combination of both. Being stimulated on the ears and earlobes sends signals straight to her internal pleasure zone. Flick and lick gently, lightly, slowly, concentrating on the earlobes and the outside area rather than inside the ear canal.
Neck
There’s something incredibly sexy about being licked, nibbled, even breathed on in such a vulnerable spot. Start by brushing your lips into the hollow, the the neck meets the torso, then move into featherly kisses alternated with tiny licks up her neck, onöt stopping when you hit a hairline. Start gently but when it all heats up, change the pressure of your kisses from feathery to firm, and add in a few experimental nips. If that gets a moan rather than an ouch, she might like a gentle bite.
Start the foreplay from touching a woman’s face.
Interested to learn more about female orgasms? This 48-minute video called The Female Orgasm Explained is a must-see film. Even though the sex revolution happened 30 years ago, the female orgasm remains mysterious to a lot of people - both men and women. Get some answers to questions you have always wondered about and also to those you even didn’t know to ask.
After watching this video, please share your thoughts where the female orgasm really was explained to you, and post any additional questions or comments below.
Use these top masturbation tips for women by women for maximum effectiveness solo sex.
Hot Tub Party
If you have a hot tub, get in front of one of the jets or blowers and spread your legs as far as you can. Get a bit far from it and let it hit your clitoris and slowly begin to go closer to the jet. The closer you get the more intense the stimulation becomes. You can orgasm pretty quickly, so you can even do it a few times in a row. It feels very good anyway.
Shower Head
When you take a bath, sit down and let the water fill until your tummy. Then unscrew the shower head, so that you have a very strong stream of water directed toward your clitoris. Open your legs and enjoy. You can enjoy orgasms for extended periods of time.
Rub-a-dub-dub
Lie in an empty bathtub. Spread your legs wide and turn on the faucet to a lukewarm, yet on the colder side temperature. Take a position where the constant flow of the water is on your clitoris. Position your arms so your elbows are holding you up. You can put your hands wedged under your bottom for additional pressure. As you start getting hotter and hotter, change the temperature to more of a hot one, and enjoy! Gives great orgasms almost every time.
Patting the vagina
Use enough lube to create a smooth hand-to-vagina connection. Gently pat your clitor with your hand flat. Occasionally, hold your hand down, creating pressure and then go back to patting. Eventually, just press and release, not pulling the hand all the way off.
The shovel
Use a dildo or other similar object, and pretend your toy is a shovel and you are digging softly. With a forward gliding motion, slide the toy down to your clitoris, across it and then upward, removing it from your body completely. Repeat over and over and over until you climax.
The sandwich
Hold your clit from its base between two fingers with one hand while stroking it with your other hand (either one finger or more rubbing). The pressure of the stroke is up to you, of course, but continue to maintain the sandwich effect while you work on it.
Oral hygiene
Take an electric toothbrush (preferably one with varying speeds) and turn it on, moving it around your inner thigh until you get nice and wet. Without a little lubrication, this can be kind of uncomfortable. Then bring it right on top of your clitoris, first to one side, then the other. Usually one side of your clit is more sensitive than the other. If you REALLY want to drive yourself wild, leave the toothbrush on that side for most of the time. It cab really feel divine.
Tap, tap, tap
Tap your clit rapidly. Faster and faster and faster. It will get you hot and wet. When you are about to climax, rub it hard. Always works. Always.
Flex, relax, flex, relax
Take your index and middle finger and place them on your clit. Harden the muscles in your legs as much as you can and imagine your hips are being pushed back. Now take the two fingers on your clit and move them back and forth, while still pressing on your clit. Then once you get the hang of it tighten and untighten your legs to give added effect, but not too much. It’s hard to keep this up after the orgasm, but you can place your fingers in a spot slightly above or below your clit to do this again many times.
Which one of these masturbation tips works best for you?