How to make a women orgasm every time? The odds are against you. A known fact - about 3/4 women don’t orgasm regularly during sex. There are many things to do about it (a lot of answers in the previous posts in this blog), and one way is to do something to a woman that feels so incredibly good that she completely relaxes and lets go, you’re highly likely to make that woman orgasm.

This is a list of techniques that are almost guaranteed to make a women orgasm every time.

The Double Grip
A woman’s butt is often left without attention during sex. And that’s why grabbing both of her cheeks when she’s on top may be just the unexpected turn-on a girl needs to get off. The buttocks are packed with nerve endings and to give her maximum pleasure, spread your fingers wide and squeeze both buttocks firmly.

The Up Shift
When a guy is on top of you in the missionary position, have him shift his body slightly forward so that, every time he thrusts, his penis rubs against your clitoris (and pubic bones rub together). This tactic is even more orgasmic if the woman’s legs are together and the man’s are straddling her. This increases clitoral stimulation. You can achieve the same effect when she’s on top by propping yourself up on your elbows, which places your abdomen in closer contact with her clitoris and surrounding areas (for indirect stimulation).

The Ultimate
There’s no question that clitoral contact is the ultimate way to make a woman orgasm. How and how much exactly depends on the woman.

Going down on a woman allows you to get a real sense of the stimulation she likes at every stage of arousal, especially the final one. It also eliminates any performance anxiety she has during intercourse, so she can relax and enjoy.

Learn what she likes. Get between her legs and give her a solid base of lips and tongue. Use your hands to guide her hips to let her know you want her to do the grinding. When she takes over, note how hard she’s pushing and in what direction. Use that information later when using your fingers or giving her a more aggressive tongue bath. Avoid direct contact with clitoris as it is too sensitive, but be very close to it.

The Drop Trick
Steady clitoral contact is essential to female orgasm. But without adequate lubrication, it can become uncomfortable. Lubrication increases the comfort and speed with which you can penetrate the vagina and grind against the clitoris. Sometimes women can have trouble getting wet even though they are aroused.

Try a couple of drops of lube on the end of your penis. Then thrust with short, rhythmic strokes while pressing your body against her pubic mound.

The Neck Warmer
Our necks are highly responsive when touched as the skin is thin, and the blood vessels are close to the surface. Kissing a woman’ neck can remind some of their first sexual experiences which could make it even more exciting. Remember - no hickeys.

When you’re having sex and she’s clearly moving toward orgasm, brush your lips from her collarbone to her jaw, then give her neck big, warm kisses until she comes unhinged.

The Play-by-Play
For a verbal girl a string of four-letter words whispered in the heat of the moment can work wonders. Start by complimenting her or talking about how good what you’re doing feels. If she doesn’t say anything back, she might not be into it. If she responds with “Oh, yeah” or a similarly enthusiastic phrase, she wants more.

Some women get really turned on when told what you’re doing to them in explicit language. Be careful with your choice of words though. While some women like to talk dirty, some get really turned off by it. If she ever seems taken aback by what you said, just say “Sorry about that, I got carried away.”

The Dream Machine
Some women can orgasm only by using a vibrator. If your partner never orgasms no matter what you try, simply ask her if she’s ever had a battery-assisted orgasm. If she says no, introduce her to a whole new world of wow by ordering something small but powerful, such as the Aqua Touch Vibe.

If she’s over the age of 30, her answer will probably be yes, and she’ll be more than happy to pull her Hitachi Magic Wand out of her bedside drawer. After asking what pressure and speed she prefers, all you have to do is hold it against her clitoris as you move from one position to another. Be ready for the miracles happen.

Use these techniques and you never have to ask “how to make a woman orgasm” again.

Interested to know what a woman feels when she reaches orgasm? This is a step-by-step coverage of what happens to women on their way to orgasm.

1. She becomes aroused

Sexual triggers like hot moves on the dance floor, passionate kisses unleash a cascade of physiological responses that begin to prepare her body for sex. Her body starts to lubricate the vaginal canal and inner labia. Chemicals released in the brain increases bloodflow to the pelvic area, swelling the inner and outer labia and causing her to feel sexual tension.

2. Her body unwinds

Parts of her brain start to relax, and the uterus tips upward, making the vagina longer. The clitoris starts to swell, as does the spongy tissue around the urethra, which is why some women feel as if they have to pee when aroused. Indirect stimulation of the clitoris will make her want direct stimulation, increasing her appetite for sex.

3. Her vital signs increase

Her heart rate and breathing speed up, more blood is pumped to her sexual organs, and her clitoris extends, fully engorged, longing for contact with penis. Slow, steady stimulation that builds rhythmically will help coax her body toward the threshold to climax. The more anticipation she feels, the better she’ll respond.

4. She nears her treshold

Because of the flood of neuro-transmitters in her brain, she enters a trance-like state. Just before the orgasm, the subconscious part of the brain signals a vaginal nerve to start muscular contractions. Women may feel the outer third of their vagina “grabbing” at the penis, but her arousal may fade and she will still revert to stage 1 if stimulation ceases or changes.

6. She reaches orgasm

The orgasmic stage with rhythmic or sporadic contractions in the vagina, uterus, and anus typically lasts 10 to 60 seconds. At this point, many women prefer more intense stimulation that matches their orgasmic response. The chemical oxytocin is released in the brain, promoting a feeling of closeness, according to some research - which could explain why women want to cuddle after sex.

7. Her rest period begins

Unlike men, women can have multiple orgasms without experiencing a refractory period after each one. This doesn’t happen without stimulation though, so if stimulation stops women will return to a base-line level of arousal. Contractions stop, the uterus lowers, and the clitoris goes back in its shell. Heart rate and breathing slow, and bloodflow returns to normal. The clitoris will probably be too sensitive for direct stimulation, but other parts of her body will be yearning for attention.

Sure you’ve heard about multiple female orgasms, but as many as up to 70% of women have never experienced multiple orgasms. Multiple female orgasms are real, and achievable for most women who are interested in experiencing them.

Female multiple orgasms really do exist. In order to understand why, you have to understand the sexual response cycle. After men orgasm they go through a period where they are incapable of having another orgasm (lasting anywhere from minutes to days depending on the age). Women don’t have this challenge with sexual response cycle. Therefore, a woman can reach orgasm again after the first.

As to why most women don’t experience multiple orgasms is the same reason why women don’t get orgasms in the first place: lack of clitoral stimulation. Once the first orgasm is reached, the clitoris becomes very sensitive, so continued stimulation should be very light or indirect.

After the first orgasm a woman can slip slightly away from orgasm. Deep breathing and relaxation will help restore her to the brink of orgasm. Of course some women simply don’t enjoy stimulation continued beyond the first orgasm. If this is the case there’s no reason to continue.

Women who experience multiple orgasms regularly have a these things in common:

• They tend to be women who have examined their own genitalia and are familiar with their equipment
• They are comfortable with their sexuality
• They tend to masturbate frequently and engage in frequent sexual fantasies.
• They are more likely to have open and honest sexual discussions with their respective partners.

If you want to start experiencing multiple orgasm, make sure these 4 points are covered (and that your clitoris gets stimulated!).

Different types of stimulation can create distinct types of orgasm.

A vaginal orgasm is quite uncommon because of the relative lack of sensitive nerve endings that can be easily stimulated in and around the vagina. The most sensitive parts of the vagina are at the opening and within the first two inches of the opening. During a vaginal orgasm, the uterus drops lower, shortening the vagina. Presumably this shortens the distance that sperm must travel to fertilize the female egg.

The clitoris has more than 8000 nerve endings in its tiny tip and for this reason, most women experience orgasms far more easily during clitoral stimulation. Most women masturbate by stimulating the clitoris. Many women like a feeling of fullness, provided by a penis, dildo or fingers, while experiencing a clitoral orgasm. During a clitoral orgasm, the vagina actually becomes longer, creating a pocket to be formed under the uterus.

Ever wondered whar are the best sex positions for a female during intercourse? These sex positions make it easier for women to achieve orgasm.

Modified Missionary

Forget the standard missionary - many women complain that they cannot achieve an orgasm with the man lying on top. Just change it around a bit and you’ll have orgasms coming your way every time.

Lie on your back and put your legs over your partner’s shoulders. This is a good position to get clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, and is a good way to begin to experience building a G-spot orgasm. The man will have a lot of control over stimulating your G-spot, and you can work on your clitoris to have an orgasm.

Another way to do it is to be in the missionary position as usual, but make sure your pubic bones rub together (let the man put some weight on you). This way there is some pressure applied which indirectly stimulates the clitoris.

Mouth and Finger

A lot of women orgasm more easily through oral sex than with penetration. Try the following exercise:

Get your partner to caress your clitoris, urethra and vaginal opening with lips and tongue. Slower is better, so you have time to absorb all the sensations and to remember to relax.

When you feel aroused, ask him to insert a finger, ever so slowly, and rub your G-spot very slowly but firmly. Over time, your G-spot will become more easily aroused, and swollen, and less stimulation will be necessary to feel ready for orgasm.

Face to Face on a Stool

You sit on a stool (e.g. a tall kitchen stool) and he is standing up. This is great for connecting and slowly working up to soulful eye-to-eye communication. You’ll find that in this position you are more present and equal - no one’s weight is on anyone, you are facing each other. You can look down at his penis, and he can get valuable feedback about the types of strokes he is delivering when he sees your face and hears your delighted sounds.

This position is best for intense G-spot stimulation, but your clitoris can also be easily stimulated. If the stool is sturdy, it can also be excellent for deep penetration and for exploring how deep, penetrating thrusts can trigger the sensations of a uterine orgasm (different than a vaginal orgasm, but equally enjoyable). It’s likely that at first you may not have an orgasm and you may not ejaculate, but it’s worth it to explore a uterine orgasm.

Standing up from Behind

Stand up, slightly bent forward and your partner will penetrate you from behind. You’ll find more pressure on the G-spot than with the traditional doggy-style position. Your partner’s movements will push forward against your G-spot, and that’s exactly what you want for good stimulation.

For maximum pleasure it is important to have your G-spot aroused before he enters. G-spot sensitivity, G-spot orgasms and ejaculating freely will not happen overnight, so notice what feels good and instruct your man. Let him know when he really hits the target. It’s helpful to say to your partner, “Oh, oh, oh, please remember that spot!” That gets the message across in an exciting way.

Don’t expect him always to remember, but do expect him to catch on after a while. The great thing about all these positions is the gradualness with which this can occur. Unlike learning to have an orgasm, which often leads people to stick to one method, variety in how you experience pleasure and orgasm will increase as you slowly incorporate your G-spot awakening into what you already do.