The G Spot goes in and out of fashion with sex experts. Some claim it exists, some deny.

The G Spot is really the underside or root of the clitoris and its nerves, which can be stimulated from inside the vagina, though women vary far more in their response to this type of stimulation than they do in their clitoral responses.

Some women feel it’s the greatest turn-on ever, some hate it, some feel it’s a pleasurable variation, others find it irritating.

There are no rights and wrongs. What matters is for both partners to feel free to experiment and give feedback on what feels good to them. Because the G Spot can be so sensitive and its effects unpredictable, it’s often a good idea for the woman to explore for herself first and then later share the knowledge with her partner.

Fingers are usually going to be more effective than a penis, by the way, and you’re more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused. There is a special sex toy designed to help – the Rock-Chick - which stimulates the clitoris and the G Spot simultaneously. See www.rock-chick.com for details.

Most women are more responsive to clitoral stimulation and need clitoral stimulation if they are to climax during intercourse.

What often intrigues people about the G Spot is that it’s said to be linked with female ejaculation – women producing fluid on climax just as men do.

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Many women say they don’t experience the g-spot orgasm - most of them don’t even know where it is. So how to find the g-spot? G-spot - Grafenberg spot - is a part of vaginal upper wall giving sense of orgasm. Some say it is the female prostate, but not all are convinced. Watch Jaiya talk about how to find the g-spot and what she feels is the truth.

I guess the best way to make sure what is the truth is through experimentation. Try out these tips you just got and see if it works for you. If you found your g-spot, let us know and share how.