How to make a women orgasm every time? The odds are against you. A known fact - about 3/4 women don’t orgasm regularly during sex. There are many things to do about it (a lot of answers in the previous posts in this blog), and one way is to do something to a woman that feels so incredibly good that she completely relaxes and lets go, you’re highly likely to make that woman orgasm.

This is a list of techniques that are almost guaranteed to make a women orgasm every time.

The Double Grip
A woman’s butt is often left without attention during sex. And that’s why grabbing both of her cheeks when she’s on top may be just the unexpected turn-on a girl needs to get off. The buttocks are packed with nerve endings and to give her maximum pleasure, spread your fingers wide and squeeze both buttocks firmly.

The Up Shift
When a guy is on top of you in the missionary position, have him shift his body slightly forward so that, every time he thrusts, his penis rubs against your clitoris (and pubic bones rub together). This tactic is even more orgasmic if the woman’s legs are together and the man’s are straddling her. This increases clitoral stimulation. You can achieve the same effect when she’s on top by propping yourself up on your elbows, which places your abdomen in closer contact with her clitoris and surrounding areas (for indirect stimulation).

The Ultimate
There’s no question that clitoral contact is the ultimate way to make a woman orgasm. How and how much exactly depends on the woman.

Going down on a woman allows you to get a real sense of the stimulation she likes at every stage of arousal, especially the final one. It also eliminates any performance anxiety she has during intercourse, so she can relax and enjoy.

Learn what she likes. Get between her legs and give her a solid base of lips and tongue. Use your hands to guide her hips to let her know you want her to do the grinding. When she takes over, note how hard she’s pushing and in what direction. Use that information later when using your fingers or giving her a more aggressive tongue bath. Avoid direct contact with clitoris as it is too sensitive, but be very close to it.

The Drop Trick
Steady clitoral contact is essential to female orgasm. But without adequate lubrication, it can become uncomfortable. Lubrication increases the comfort and speed with which you can penetrate the vagina and grind against the clitoris. Sometimes women can have trouble getting wet even though they are aroused.

Try a couple of drops of lube on the end of your penis. Then thrust with short, rhythmic strokes while pressing your body against her pubic mound.

The Neck Warmer
Our necks are highly responsive when touched as the skin is thin, and the blood vessels are close to the surface. Kissing a woman’ neck can remind some of their first sexual experiences which could make it even more exciting. Remember - no hickeys.

When you’re having sex and she’s clearly moving toward orgasm, brush your lips from her collarbone to her jaw, then give her neck big, warm kisses until she comes unhinged.

The Play-by-Play
For a verbal girl a string of four-letter words whispered in the heat of the moment can work wonders. Start by complimenting her or talking about how good what you’re doing feels. If she doesn’t say anything back, she might not be into it. If she responds with “Oh, yeah” or a similarly enthusiastic phrase, she wants more.

Some women get really turned on when told what you’re doing to them in explicit language. Be careful with your choice of words though. While some women like to talk dirty, some get really turned off by it. If she ever seems taken aback by what you said, just say “Sorry about that, I got carried away.”

The Dream Machine
Some women can orgasm only by using a vibrator. If your partner never orgasms no matter what you try, simply ask her if she’s ever had a battery-assisted orgasm. If she says no, introduce her to a whole new world of wow by ordering something small but powerful, such as the Aqua Touch Vibe.

If she’s over the age of 30, her answer will probably be yes, and she’ll be more than happy to pull her Hitachi Magic Wand out of her bedside drawer. After asking what pressure and speed she prefers, all you have to do is hold it against her clitoris as you move from one position to another. Be ready for the miracles happen.

Use these techniques and you never have to ask “how to make a woman orgasm” again.

Sure you’ve heard about multiple female orgasms, but as many as up to 70% of women have never experienced multiple orgasms. Multiple female orgasms are real, and achievable for most women who are interested in experiencing them.

Female multiple orgasms really do exist. In order to understand why, you have to understand the sexual response cycle. After men orgasm they go through a period where they are incapable of having another orgasm (lasting anywhere from minutes to days depending on the age). Women don’t have this challenge with sexual response cycle. Therefore, a woman can reach orgasm again after the first.

As to why most women don’t experience multiple orgasms is the same reason why women don’t get orgasms in the first place: lack of clitoral stimulation. Once the first orgasm is reached, the clitoris becomes very sensitive, so continued stimulation should be very light or indirect.

After the first orgasm a woman can slip slightly away from orgasm. Deep breathing and relaxation will help restore her to the brink of orgasm. Of course some women simply don’t enjoy stimulation continued beyond the first orgasm. If this is the case there’s no reason to continue.

Women who experience multiple orgasms regularly have a these things in common:

• They tend to be women who have examined their own genitalia and are familiar with their equipment
• They are comfortable with their sexuality
• They tend to masturbate frequently and engage in frequent sexual fantasies.
• They are more likely to have open and honest sexual discussions with their respective partners.

If you want to start experiencing multiple orgasm, make sure these 4 points are covered (and that your clitoris gets stimulated!).

The Hite Report on Female Sexuality research, published in 1998, shows that 94 percent of women can regularly orgasm via self-stimulation. Sadly this is not often happening during sex with a partner because the stimulation is not done in the same way. Men often think women orgasm the same way they do, and they need to be educated.

The definition of sex should change to include clitoral stimulation as a normal part of sex. This would also make sex more egalitarian, no longer exaggeratedly focused on penetration and coitus as the high point or climax of sex. Sex is way too macho the way it is right now.

Society has not been able to quickly overturn centuries of belief about the act, or allowed women to orgasm in their own way. Instead, it has clung to the new trendy term with its old-fashioned idea of sex.

Sex should change into an activity where both women and men get the stimulation they need for orgasm. Since women can easily orgasm via their own clitoral-area stimulation during masturbation, the same stimulation should become an equally important high point to intercourse and penetration in a new version of sex.

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Did you know there’s a study that says that up to 45% of the differences between women in their ability to reach orgasm can be explained by their genes?

Its findings suggest there is an underlying biological basis to a woman’s ability to achieve orgasm. Whether that basis is anatomical, physiological or psychological remains uncertain, says Tim Spector of the twin research unit at St Thomas’ Hospital in London, UK, who carried out the study.

Spector’s team asked more than 6000 female twins to fill out a confidential questionnaire about how often they achieved orgasm during intercourse and masturbation. Only 14% of the women reported always experiencing orgasm during intercourse. Another 32% of the women reported that they were unable to achieve orgasm more than a quarter of the time, while 16% never achieved it at all. Comparing the results from identical and non-identical twins suggests that 34% of this variation in ability to orgasm during intercourse is genetic.

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Naturally there are many things every man and woman should know about female orgasms. This is a good list to start with. These five facts about female orgasms were discovered by neuroscientist Barry R. Komisaruk, endocrinologist Carlos Beyer-Flores, and sex researcher Beverly Whipple in their research (get their book The Science of Orgasm).

• It isn’t easy
  It takes about 20 minutes of clitoral or G-spot stimulation for most women to hit the jackpot. An average intercourse doesn’t even last that long. The researchers also estimate that 24 to 37 percent of women can’t climax at all. This is mostly because smoking, drinking, emotional disorders, medications, and menopause.
• You can get help
  Fortunately if you can’t climax, there’s hope for you. Cognitive behavioral therapy, testosterone treatments, the herb ginkgo biloba, and the nutritional supplement ArginMax (which includes Korean ginseng, ginkgo biloba, vitamins, minerals, and an amino acid) have been shown to improve sexual satisfaction.
  
• Pleasure for procreation
  Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases the chance of conception. The theory: Oxytocin, a hormone released in peak levels during orgasm, causes uterine contractions that coax sperm toward the egg.
• Mastrubation is good for you
  Besides its obvious perks, masturbating is good for your health. Studies show that orgasm can reduce sensitivity to pain, relieve menstrual cramps, and alleviate stress—possibly due to a surge in oxytocin and dopamine.
• Orgasm as treatment for hysteria
  From ancient Greece to Freud’s time, doctors stimulated orgasms in women via “medical massage” to treat the catchall female ailment known as hysteria. In the late 1800s, the vibrator was designed for the same purpose.