The Hite Report on Female Sexuality research, published in 1998, shows that 94 percent of women can regularly orgasm via self-stimulation. Sadly this is not often happening during sex with a partner because the stimulation is not done in the same way. Men often think women orgasm the same way they do, and they need to be educated.

The definition of sex should change to include clitoral stimulation as a normal part of sex. This would also make sex more egalitarian, no longer exaggeratedly focused on penetration and coitus as the high point or climax of sex. Sex is way too macho the way it is right now.

Society has not been able to quickly overturn centuries of belief about the act, or allowed women to orgasm in their own way. Instead, it has clung to the new trendy term with its old-fashioned idea of sex.

Sex should change into an activity where both women and men get the stimulation they need for orgasm. Since women can easily orgasm via their own clitoral-area stimulation during masturbation, the same stimulation should become an equally important high point to intercourse and penetration in a new version of sex.

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